Frequently Asked Questions


Mansion: Up to 150 guests seated. Carriage House: Up to 75 guests seated.
There is only one catered event scheduled at the Mansion on any given day. There can be two catered events at the Carriage House and they must use the same caterer.
Gramercy Mansion and the Carriage House may have simultaneous events. There are outdoor signs to guide guests to the proper location. In addition, there is a representative from Gramercy to help guests find the correct location. We encourage all of our couples to inform their guests which venue their wedding is being held in and/or display a Welcome Sign in front of the building.
No, your wedding officiant should be able to coordinate your ceremony. In some cases, your catering manager will assist with the flow of your wedding day. If you wish to hire a professional, there are several on our resource list if you need any recommendations.
Our overnight guest rooms are not included to get ready in, and must be booked separately. Gramercy Mansion offers eleven unique guest rooms. A 50% discount is available to wedding couples for the night of their wedding with the 4-hour exclusive event package. We do have exclusive packages that include all the guest rooms, and we encourage you to check guest room availability and reserve a room or suite at the time of contract signing.
While birdseed, confetti and rice are not allowed, you may use bubbles or real rose petals outdoors. Sparkler exits are also allowed, but require a container filled with sand/dirt so that guests may extinguish their sparkler.
While we do not allow pets on the property or in the Mansion, except for service animals, we do make an exception for wedding couples to include their pet during the wedding ceremony. The pet must be taken home after the ceremony is over. Furever & Fur Always specializes in doggie day care for wedding couples. Please contact them at or 443-275-6211.
No, you must choose from our approved list of caterers and kosher caterers, which can be found on our rental rates pages under Weddings/Parties.
No, you may choose from the approved catering list. The Carriage House is located across from the Mansion and has a separate kitchen.
All alcohol must be provided and served by the caterer, who also provides the bartender. We do not allow self-serve alcohol stations, self-pour bottles or kegs.
Yes. Candles must be in votive containers or glass enclosures with the flame no higher than the glass surrounding it.
Yes. Parking is included with your rental, and we have approximately 100 parking spots to accommodate all guests.
Mansion: We can comfortably accommodate your guests with first-floor bathrooms, a handicap entrance from the driveway, and reserved parking spaces located next to the house and close to the door. Please note that the outdoor ceremony garden is NOT handicap accessible, but the indoor ceremony space and adjoining rooms are. Carriage House: Parking spots are located close to the Carriage House for your guests, and the brick courtyard and all interior rooms are handicap accessible. There is one accessible restroom. The ceremony garden may be reached via the entry point closest to the large tree, follow the pathway and enter the garden through a vine covered trellis.
No, unfortunately not. It is not owned by Gramercy and is a popular vendor rental by our couples. We usually see Event Dynamics here often to install any color tulle you can dream of.
Yes. There are packages that include all 11 guest rooms for your wedding guests. If there are other guests staying here, they will not have access to the first floor rooms, pool, or gardens during the time of your event.